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Jun 10th, 2020

@ 10:47am
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キミに出逢えた事 それは運命
 kimi ni deaeta koto sore wa unmei.

[Wednesday

Jun 30th, 2010

@ 12:00am
]
Azi Alyce Fuad
Azi Alyce Fuad
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bring christmas early! )
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[Sunday

Nov 15th, 2009

@ 3:07pm
]
"so who's your new boyfriend?" - mum

HAHA

to say that i don't miss being a whirlwind of "love" (in " " cause i doubt any of wtv was love, but merely stupid crushes) would be a lie. hahaha. but i dnt think i wna make the stupid mistakes again, only hurting myself and doing things i regret. i say im over guys but once again i find myself falling into a hole that was never gone. its not that i dnt enjoy, the attention, the flirting, the crazy sugar rushes, the thrill. but i guess i just gotta learn to hold myself together better this time. and not make the same stupid mistakes. for now my first love will be design and second love, floorball and third, dance!

The semester's almost coming to an end, with it being just two papers and 2 submissions away. Many crazy things have happened this semester. Took on responsibilities. Learnt to be more responsible. Had a crazy stress meltdown. Met new people. Had crushes. Found close friends that im totally grateful for. Got to know the people i already knew (but only as acquaintances before) more. Learnt a great deal in design. Learnt to push myself to do better. All in all this sem has its ups an downs round and round. but it was (: though there are some things that im unsure of.

so now, exams and submissions and calling!
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The Wisdom Behind Fasting [Sunday

Aug 23rd, 2009

@ 1:13pm
]

Here's to a good start of fasting, by not losing sight of why we actually do it in the first place.

From the wisdom of fasting is that: It is an act of worship done for Allaah, in which the ‘abd (servant) draws closer to His Lord by abandoning the things that he loves and desires, such as food, drink and sexual intercourse. So because of this, the truthfulness of his Faith and the completeness of his servitude to Allaah become apparent, as well as his love for Allaah and his longing for what Allaah has prepared for him (of good). This is since the one who fasts does not abandon something that is beloved to him except for that which is greater to him than it (which is Allaah). When the believer knows that Allaah’s contentment lies in the fasting - which is abandoning those desires that he naturally loves - he will give his Lord’s contentment precedence over his desires. So he abandons his desires no matter how much he longs and yearns for them, because his delight and the tranquility of his soul lies in his abandoning all that for the sake of Allaah.

And from the wisdom behind fasting is that it is a means of attaining Taqwaa, as Allaah says: "O you who believe! Fasting is prescribed for you as it was prescribed for those before you, in order that you gain Taqwaa." This is since a person who is fasting is commanded to do the obligatory duties and to avoid sinful acts. The Prophet (saws) said: "Whoever does not abandon false speech, acting upon that (false speech) and (acts of) ignorance (i.e. sins), then Allaah has no need of him abandoning his food and drink." [Reported by Al-Bukhaaree] So when a person is fasting, every time he desires to do a sinful act, he will remember that he is fasting and thus withhold himself from that. This is why the Prophet (saws) ordered the person who is fasting, when cursed at and abused, to say: "I am fasting", cautioning him (the reviler) that a person fasting is commanded to refrain from cursing and reviling, and reminding himself that he is fasting and cannot react with cursing.

And from the wisdom behind fasting is that the heart opens to contemplation and remembrance (of Allaah). This is since fulfilling one’s desires leads to heedlessness and perhaps the heart becomes hardened and blinded from the truth. This is why the Prophet (saws) advised us to eat and drink little, where he said: "The Son of Aadam does not fill a vessel worse than his stomach." [Reported by Ahmad, An-Nasaa’ee and Ibn Maajah]

And in Saheeh Muslim, Handhala Al-Usaidee (raa), who was one of the scribes of Allaah’s Messenger, said to the Prophet (saws): "Handhala has become a hypocrite." So Allaah’s Messenger (saws) said: "Why is that?" He said: "O Messenger of Allaah, when we are with you, you remind us of the Hellfire and Paradise, as if we see them with our own eyes. But when we depart from you, we meet our wives and our children and our homes and we forget much (of what we heard from you)." In the last part of the hadeeth, the Prophet (saws) said to him: "But O Handhala, there is a time for this and a time for that (three times)." Abu Sulaymaan Ad-Daraanee said: "Indeed, when the soul hungers and thirsts, the heart softens and becomes pure. And when it is fed, the heart becomes blinded."

And from the wisdom behind fasting is that the person who has wealth is caused to realize the blessing of wealth that Allaah has bestowed on him, such that Allaah blessed him with food, drink and sexual intercourse. Many people are deprived of these things, so he should praise Allaah for these blessings and thank Him for granting him them. And he should remember his brother who is poor and who probably goes through the day starved and hungry. So he should be generous to him and give him charity so that he can clothe his barrenness and satisfy his hunger.

And from the wisdom behind fasting is that it trains one to curb the soul, and it gives one strength to withhold his soul by its bridle, such that one can govern it and lead it towards that which is good for it and what will make it prosper. This is because the soul commands one to do evil, except for those souls that my Lord has mercy on. So when a person undoes and lets go of his (soul’s) bridle, the soul lands him into many dangers. But when he controls it and curbs it, he is able to lead it to the highest of levels and the greatest of goals.

And from the wisdom of fasting is that the soul is broken down and restricted from having pride, to the point that it humbles itself to the truth and softens itself before the creation. This is because eating, drinking and having sexual intercourse with women - all of these things bring about insolence, arrogance, vanity and pride over people and over the truth. The soul preoccupies itself with trying to obtain these things because of its need for them. So when it obtains these things, the soul feels like it has conquered what it desired and so it falls into the happiness and proudness that is condemned. And this is a cause for its destruction. Only those whom Allaah protects are saved from this.

And from the wisdom behind fasting is that the passageways of blood (in the body) become narrow due to hunger and thirst, so therefore the passageways of the Devil in the human body also become narrower. This is since the Devil flows through the son of Adam like the flowing of blood, as is authentically recorded in the two Saheeh collections. So by fasting, the whisperings of the Devil are subdued and the strength of one’s desires and anger are subjugated. This is why the Prophet (saws) said: "O young men! Whoever amongst you can afford it, should get married, for it is the best means for lowering one’s gaze and the best way of keeping (one’s) private parts chaste. But whoever is not able to marry, then let him fast, for it has protection."

And from the wisdom behind fasting are the health benefits that come as a result of it, which are attained by in-taking little food, allowing the digestive system to rest for a specified time, which lets excess wastes and excrements that are harmful to the body be discharged.

So how great and profound is the wisdom of Allaah, and how beneficial are His commandments to His creatures!

O Allaah, give us comprehension of Your Religion and allow us to understand the inner secrets of Your commandments. Rectify for us the affairs of our Religion and our worldly life. And forgive us and our parents and all the Muslims, by Your mercy, O Most Merciful. And may the peace and blessings of Allaah be on Muhammad (saws) and on his family and all his Companions.


Author:Imaam Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaimeen
Source:Majaalis Shahr Ramadaan [pgs. 41-43] Abridged
Translator:isma'eel alarcon (al-manhaj.com)
 

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[Saturday

Aug 22nd, 2009

@ 11:44pm
]
  


been 3d modelling (: gets me excited hahahha. rhinoooo (:
other than that, its been bendboo-hoo-hoo-ing.
ineresting material. but sigh,
design blocks can really be such a fishing pain in the gluteus maximus!!
God, please help me through it and keep my passion for it alive. Amin.

we can plan, but only God decides.
power of prayer.
<3

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"The best of all medicines is resting and fasting” [Saturday

Aug 22nd, 2009

@ 11:04am
]
 Prayer carries us half way to God, fasting brings us to the door of His palace, and alms-giving procures us admission.” - the Holy Quran

happy fasting people (: May this Ramadhan be a fruitful, eye opening and life changing one <3


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